So what do two single girls do on Valentine’s Day….go see a chick flick!! The movie ‘He’s just not that into you’ did not disappoint and left me analysing all my past relationships and dating patterns. My dating experiences would have many of you in fits of laughter…..but i definitely learnt alot about men and the way they think. Knowing what i know still doesn’t stop me from making bad choices or lusting after the ‘wrong’ guy but that’s life a myriad of adventures. Many of us can relate to GG optimistic and somewhat naive when it comes to the opposite sex. But she represents the core essence of the average person looking to find happiness and we see a little or alot of ourselves in her. One thing i realised was that no matter the circumstance we always know deep down ‘whats up’!! The reality is most times we delude ourselves and forget to listen to what our head is telling us….he’s just not that into you. If you think about it if he’s not calling you he really doesn’t want to talk to you, he’s really not ‘busy’….he’s just too busy for you. Dating and the pursuit of love is never easy but remember we all find our way eventually. I once asked my guru why there is pain and his response was too suffer the heart to love more freely. As human beings we are all fallible and what makes us human is that we feel….